A friend and I meet nearly every week at a favorite restaurant for lunch. We've been doing so for years. Every week the same people wait on us and tend to our needs. Just recently my friend began asking the names of those who serve us every week so that we could better know them. He even keeps track of their names in a note on his phone. What a great idea! Now we can pray for them by name and be open for what God might want to do in and through me (us) when we dine there. As the Apostle John reminded us on Sunday, And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life. And this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life. Whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life (1 John 5.11-12).
John's words are straightforward and blunt. The temptation, of course, is to aim them at those who do not yet have the life John speaks of, as if they were weapons. But John's words are written first and foremost to us - those of us who claim to know God, follow Jesus and pursue God's purposes in the world.
Even though John's straightforward words are not intended as weapons, they are intended to inform and equip us as followers of Jesus. If eternal, abundant, God-intended life is only found in the Son of God, how then ought we to live our lives, go about our business and engage in our relationships with others? What difference should it make? What ought our attitude be toward those who do not yet have the life God offers us in and through his Son? If God really did "so love the world that he gave his one and only Son," what are we to do with that message in the 97% of our waking hours lived outside of ECC and ECC-related events?
Certainly we do not have to preach it on street corners (though that may indeed be what God calls some to do). Nor do we have to inject our faith into every conversation we have with those who do not yet have the life we have. Rather, we ought to begin, I think, with prayer. Let us pray for our neighbors and co-workers, family members and friends and those we barely know. My hope is, as I begin to more intentionally pray for my friends at the restaurant (and my neighbors and family members as well), that God will open doors, ears and hearts for us to bear witness to the testimony of eternal life in Christ Jesus. We all need to be reminded from time to time, as church consultant Bill Easum says, "Jesus always comes to us on his way to someone else."
I have been struggling with this a bit. I started getting back to my love of writing and want to post things online for others to read. I find myself concerned that my Christian friends will think I am leaving Christ out too much and my other friends (and strangers) think I am to "Christianesse". I wonder if we lived more like what John is speaking about, we would not have to 'talk' about it as much. It will be evident in our actions. Don't you think we sometimes want to say things in a 'bible' way that we lose people? What if we actually cared for people like Christ did? What if by praying for others, that it was actually changing our hearts towards them and that is what they see, a geniune care for them as oppsed to another 'win' to be a Christian? What if I didn't need to write a verse in every paragraph to state what Christ has done in my life?
ReplyDeleteCarol, sorry for taking so long to respond... yes, it is difficult, but it sounds like you're on the right path! We need to BE the good news as much or more so as BRING the good news. I do believe that prayer is the place to start and an openness to the Spirit. Thanks for thinking it through with us!
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